How to Love an Impossible Love

How to love an impossible love? How to love the one who rejects, offends, ignores, despises us? The one who is like fire that you will not be able to approach because she will burn you for sure.

How to love a love who is like a lioness ready to attack? How to love a love who is like a dagger, decided to be buried in your heart? How to love a love who is like deadly snakes, like a path filled with scorpions?

Well, that love will be loved like the bottom of the sea, like the distant star in the darkness of infinity, knowing that it exists but that it can never be felt or touched. You must love, in spite of everything, but not with an idealistic love that would turn into melancholy, but with a realistic, conscious love; and the only way of loving will always be, ever and forever, to love each day more.

 

 

 

 

 

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About Happiness (6)

Author, Oscar Basurto Carbonell, will present One Hundred Writings on this topic, for the purpose of offering a better understanding of the meaning of Happiness.

Writing 6

Is Happiness possible?
How near or far can I find her?
Does Happiness last?
Who can be Happy?
Are there any special requirements?
Can I maintain Happiness?

I was having so many questions and so many reflections that I realized that it was not the way.

Maybe reaching Happiness is like climbing a tall mountain or maybe after a long trip or maybe Happiness is in a book.

I kept asking until I said “enough”, I need something closer to me, closer to Happiness itself, where I will feel the emotions, feelings, thoughts.

And for the last time, I said again, “enough.”

Then, I started to contemplate, over and over again,up to the point that there was no difference between the one who contemplated and what was contemplated.

This contemplation had no limits, no form. It was unlimited. No difference, no similarity.
It was to dilute in the all, then, that all, was not all, because it was not the sum of the parts. There were no parts.

Only one being, one vibration, only one life beat.

Then, I started to realize Happiness, but also to discover that this is only the beginning.

I also realized that there is more than the matter, but I knew this when realizing that by contemplating, I was also sharing with no difference nor limitation, judgement; only by vibrating with the all, without feeling the all, in other words, it was flowing, because I was sharing and the best way to explain is to embrace everything with tenderness, acceptance.

This set the mind on fire and it transformed into compassion, which arose because it was there, neither inside nor outside. It was in everything.

The key of life: Compassion: Sharing.

Then, Happiness was teaching me to smile.
That was when I realized what I would call, “The Beginning of Happiness.”

About Happiness (5)

 Author, Oscar Basurto Carbonell, will present One Hundred Writings on this topic, for the purpose of offering a better understanding of the meaning of Happiness.
Writing 5
It is well known that the search for Happiness is a very rough path with high mountains to climb and mortal cliffs everywhere.
There were some who wanted to buy it and ended by losing everything, gold and even their minds, to the point of madness
It seems that the ones who search for Happiness face misery, hopelessness and frustration.
But it is a true fact that Happiness do exist. 
At times we watch her pass in front but we can neither touch nor embrace her because when we try, she literally would run away.
Some other times, she seems like a star, whom we can see but not reach.
What is the reason? Why life is not happy? Is something missing , is it too much or too little?
Or is Happiness, maybe an illusion?
While other times, she is present, so intense, so strong, that in spite of sorrows, or things happening inside or outside, Happiness is there, in front of us and in front of each and every human being of this creation, just like a light dissipating shadows, like aroma, perfuming everything, like an embrace where there is no separation, like a tender caress.
But then, she dissipates, like in a dream, leaving behind her remembrance, her yearning. 
Nostalgia, comes like the nostalgia of life facing death.
Happiness becomes absorbent, possessive, dominating, demanding and at this point, it is when big mistakes happen because Happiness stops to be such -when thinking about her like our everything, we become impulsive, desperate, in order to reach her. 
The only thing that we will reach is desperation,when,  such as in addiction,we sick our mind and our body trying to reach for some Happiness.
It is necessary to know what to do, what is the meaning of Happiness ?
What is the meaning of being happy ?
I know that Happiness is real, truly genuine when to be happy means to Love and be Loved in return.
If somebody would ask: Is this sure and lasting?
I will say: Is it possible for Love to stop being Love? This Love is born from the deepest and is also unconditional.
I stop at this point, so you can think, reflect, dream, while some will be immensely Happy.

Riddle me This. Get a Prize

Riddle Me This

A mystery to be solved is brought to you today, tell me what it could be that even though without wanting to, it always produces admiration and surprise but neither because of the presence, of the dressing, hairdo, nose nor mustache. It is because of something else.
 
Everybody can understand it, no matter whether rich or poor, old people or children.
Everybody can comprehend it but but not to the point of the philosophical understanding since it is too complex.
 
Are you? Am I? Is he? Is that one? Is she or the one with her? 
Maybe they all are, maybe nobody.
 
There are faces crying, there are faces laughing, when they see it. But nobody knows  who it is.
 
When night arrives it will hid and its lights will turn into shadows.
When the sunrise arrives everything will contain it into what will never ever will be.
 
Tell me what it is.
 
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The person who solves this riddle will receive as prize a writing of his/her topic selection, specially done by mystic author, Mr. Oscar Basurto Carbonell.
 
Please, send your answer below
or  email to yourhealingart@aol.com
 
Thank You ! Good Luck !

About Happiness (4)

Author, Oscar Basurto Carbonell, will present One Hundred Writings on this topic, for the purpose of offering a better understanding of the meaning of Happiness.
Writing 4
One day, while walking with no direction in mind, then, suddenly stopped for no reason, looked down, like looking for something and found a dry leaf.

Poor leaf, I thought, she probably had better days.
 
To my great surprise, a voice sprang forth from the leaf,  I could not hear it with my ears but I could hear that voice in my heart and my mind.
 
That voice filled every space of my being and said:
 
-I appreciate your looking at me but I am not a dry leaf, but much more, I truly am all the leaves, all that had been, all that will be. Do not be deceived by my actual presence, since my life and my being are beyond time, youth and old age.
 
Her silent words filled me with the understanding that I had seen -in a dry leaf, the whole life, with no beginning and no end, I had known the secret of what’s immortal.
 
Then, I heard that voice again, that could fill everything.
 
-It is true that life is eternal but only when loved, respected, in everything that you can see, feel.
You only have to see and to listen with something more than your eyes and your ears, something more than your mind.
You must listen with your heart.
 
Then, I felt like she was flowing and that dry leaf, that I thought was dying, in true, was filled with life and Happiness, because she had transcended everything and she was flowing in Eternity.
 

About Happiness (3)

 Author, Oscar Basurto Carbonell, will present One Hundred Writings on this topic, for the purpose of offering a better understanding of the meaning of Happiness.
Writing 3
If she asks for your breath, you must give it without conditions or limits.
If she asks you for your path, you must not deny, you must follow where she guides you, it doesn’t matter  where, either climbing the mountains or coming down to the valleys.
Surrender your steps.
If she asks you for your way of looking, give it to her,allow her to be the owner of your eyes, of what you’ll see or not see.
If she asks you for your heart, let her be the only owner of your heartbeats, so you can hear her name and her presence on every heartbeat.
If she asks for your sadness, then you’ll know that even though you thought that you have given her too much, she gave you more, she gave you Happiness.